When I started packing all those things up to move last time I was amazed at how much stuff I had bought and then forgot about. You know the stuff I mean; the back of the closet, still in the bag, hidden in the shame of an impulse buy stuff. I found candle holders, picture frames, an antique jewelry box, a ridiculous amount of t-shirts (thank you, youth ministry), and some shoes that are super cute…and uncomfortable. And to my eternal shame most of those things got boxed up and moved to the next location anyway.
Our cluttering stuff tends to break down into a few groups.
- Stuff We Use
- Stuff We Love
- Stuff We Wish We Used
- Stuff We Wish We Loved
Stuff We Use
This category is pretty self-explanatory. It’s made up of the stuff you actually use every day or at least 4 times a week. So things like my computer, my hairbrush (or most toiletries in general…although not all so don’t get crazy.), and my purse. (Ok Jesus Juke moment: I feel like I should say my Bible.)
Stuff We Love
This category is for stuff that we love! That shirt that just makes you feel so confident. That coffee maker that gets that blissful first cup to you sooner. That awesome piece of art that makes you smile every time you look at it. Basically anything that just makes you happy- it goes here.
Stuff We Wish We Used
This category is awkward because this is the category that gives us guilt. This is the category for the unused exercise equipment, the unused cleaning gadgets, and the unused cookware. This is the category of “I know I should but…”. And everybody has got it. We have the best intentions and we buy this stuff in a fervor of get-it-done attitude (I am looking at you yoga stuff). But the next day the fervor passes and the stuff gets relegated to the back of a closet fueling our self-loathing when we stumble across it every so often.
Stuff We Wish We Loved
This category is for the stuff that we bought because we thought owning it would make us better or happier. Like that cute top that somehow was going to help you change your entire wardrobe but you never wear it because it’s not comfortable. Or those shoes that are just gorgeous but pinch your toes. Or that china set that was just so elegant in the store but that you are afraid to use. This is the stuff that you hoped would be the glass slipper that would whisk you off to a happily ever after but it doesn’t seem to fit just right.
2 things before we go any further. Yes it is possible for an item to fit into more than one category simultaneously and no not every little thing will definitely fit into a category (so please don’t waste precious time trying to come up with stuff to mess with my system). But most things, probably 95%, will fit into at least one of these categories. Frequently we just haven’t thought about which category a particular item falls in. And we can’t decide what to do with a thing before we know which category it calls home.
So your minimalist challenge for the day is this: get to know your stuff!
Look at all the items in your home. Walk around, look in the back of closets, under beds, in the garage. And ask yourself these questions about the things you see:
- Do you use it? How often?
- Do you love it? What makes it so awesome?
- What would your daily life be like if you didn’t have it?
That’s it! So go introduce yourself to your stuff and try and figure out which category it fits into.
Don’t worry I’ll wait. Take your time! 😉